Break and Bake my Heart

Oatmeal Cookies

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So that is all it took.  Something as simple as Break and bake Oatmeal Raisin cookies were all it took tonight to send me into tears.  I had been fighting off the bah-humbugs and the grinchie-ness of the holidays the last week or so.  I started feeling a little bit better.  Tonight I plugged in the USB Christmas tree.  We can’t have a real tree and live in a tiny studio apartment, plus we are geeky nerds who play way too many video game not to have something powered and glowing hanging out there. 

A few days ago I bought a pack of Oatmeal cookies and tossed them in the fridge.  Just incase I needed something to bring to work or whatever.  Not likely to happen, or if Robb wanted some warm cookies, or heaven forbid I did.  Its okay! I count calories, as long as I am within my range 1200-1500 a day I am golden! So tonight after we exchanged our Christmas presents (yes its early but we are both on call for the next 2 days) I decided I wanted to bake those cookies off. 

Standing in the kitchen over the cookie sheet looking I welled up with tears.  This is the first Christmas without grandpop.  I had kind of been blocking it out.  I thought about him at Thanksgiving when I made his famous bacon stuffing.  Oatmeal cookies were always his favorite.  I used to sneak a few into a baggie and take them to him after the holidays when we would do the family party. 

I lost a lot of things this last year.  Family members and friends through death and other things.  I have lost weight and emotional baggage and sadly gained a bit too.  There is a lot of reflecting that is going to happen in the next week I think.  I know I need to sit down and focus on the good that came out of the last year.  My new friends, my accomplishments, all the amazing things I learned.  But just for today I am going to focus on the fact that tonight after dinner is done and the dishes are washed, I will honor my grandfather’s memory with an oatmeal cookie and some almond milk.  Not because I am emotionally eating.  That isn’t my thing.  I will savor the bite that takes me back to a childhood that I wish I could remember.

2 thoughts on “Break and Bake my Heart

  1. I hope the holidays bring you good cheer. It’s a time to remember those that we have lost, but enjoy those that we are with. Happy Holidays! Thanks for all the support you give me!!!

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